{"id":198,"date":"2008-11-04T19:16:29","date_gmt":"2008-11-04T11:16:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/?p=198"},"modified":"2008-11-20T18:55:50","modified_gmt":"2008-11-20T10:55:50","slug":"it%e2%80%99s-okay-to-be-different","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/?p=198","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s okay to be different"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal<\/w:View> <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom> <w:TrackMoves \/> <w:TrackFormatting \/> <w:PunctuationKerning \/> <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas \/> <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false<\/w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false<\/w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false<\/w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:DoNotPromoteQF \/> <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US<\/w:LidThemeOther> <w:LidThemeAsian>X-NONE<\/w:LidThemeAsian> <w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE<\/w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:Compatibility> <w:BreakWrappedTables \/> <w:SnapToGridInCell \/> 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class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Hari ini adalah hari yang special, ada banyak kejadian yang menggelitik rasaku dan membuatku tersenyum. Thank you Creator of All that is, you give me a valuable lessons today. Hari ini, semua hasil sesuai dengan apa yang saya afirmasikan pagi ini lewat status YM : <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><span>\u201cSemua hal akan berjalan mudah, membawa kebaikan dan membuat kita bahagia\u201d. <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Pagi harinya, ada banyak orang yang sangat baik dan peduli hingga mengaminkan affirmasi (doa) saya (<em>Thank you, hope you had a great day and God <span> <\/span>bless you)<\/em>, dan ada satu orang yang negative judgement akan tulisan doa saya. It\u2019s okay. I don\u2019t mind <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\"><span>\ud83d\ude42 <\/span><\/span><span>, God bless you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Siang harinya, department kami ada pertemuan, sebuah pertemuan yang membahas mengenai sebuah keputusan penting di perusahaan. Dan Alhamdulillah saya merasakan sebuah collective consciousness dan energy positive dalam ruangan meeting itu. Terima kasih teman-teman. God bless you. <em>Semoga kita semua memperoleh apa yang kita inginkan dan semua keputusan yang diperoleh adalah hal yang baik dan membahagiakan bagi kita. Amiin.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Sore harinya ada teman lama saya saat kuliah, entah kenapa dia menuliskan ingin diskusi di wall facebook saya. So saya hubungi dia dan kita terlarut dalam sebuah diskusi yang menarik. <em>(Thank you, God bless you). <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Pembicaraan menjadi semakin menarik, karena kita membahas hal yang menarik pula. Dia merasa sedih karena dianggap \u201c<em>berbeda<\/em>\u201d dalam cara memandang hidup dan kehidupan <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\"><span>\ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/span><span>. <span> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Saya tanya, <em>&#8220;oleh siapa?&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Beliau menjawab, <em>&#8220;oleh orang \u2013orang terdekat saya dan teman-teman saya.&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span>Saya bilang,<em> &#8220;that\u2019s okay and that\u2019s their own right to judge other. As long as we aware of it and do not feel superior or inferior. <span> <\/span>It\u2019s okay to be different.&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span><em>&#8220;Kita membutuhkan perbedaan dalam kehidupan, agar hidup kita lebih indah dan berwarna. Bukankah kita akan merasa bosan bila semua orang melakukan hal yang sama, atau memakai jenis baju yang sama?&#8221;<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span><em>\u201cHow about their judgement?<\/em> \u201c, Tanya teman saya.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><em><span>It\u2019s okay and it\u2019s their own rights, once again as long as we are in awareness and we don\u2019t feel superior and inferior related to their judgement. You are different right? So they are right <\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\"><span>\ud83d\ude42 <\/span><\/span><\/em><span>We are only responsible for our level on awareness. We can not ask them to changed. <!--[endif]--><span style=\"font-size: 8pt; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; color: white;\">(fibriandani)<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Lalu beliau bertanya : <em>\u201cWhy they are judging?\u201d <span> <\/span>\u201c Why they feel better than me?\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Saya jawab: <em>&#8220;That\u2019s okay, it\u2019s natural. Because people love stability, being different is teasing their comfort zone <span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\">:)&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Lalu beliau bertanya, <em>\u201cHow about judgement is it okay?\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Saya jawab : <em>&#8220;It\u2019s their choice, they\u2019re free to choose. Life is about choices and consequences. So, it\u2019s their right. And it\u2019s okay.&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Dia bertanya : <em>&#8220;How about me? How about my feeling?&#8221;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Saya jawab :<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><em><span>\u201cHow about your feeling? Just aware of your feeling, it\u2019s okay, is just a feeling.<span> <\/span>Aware of your feeling, accepting, and surrender. It\u2019s okay. I hope you do not condemn hehehe <\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\"><span>\ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/span><\/em><em><span> It\u2019s okay being different, just love who you are, accept who you are, and be who you are&#8221;.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><em><span>&#8220;Differences make our world colorful <\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\"><span>\ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/span><\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><em><span>I Hope that would put smile on your face <\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"font-family: Wingdings;\"><span>:)&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Dan dia jawab : \u201c<em>I feel much better hehehe.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>Saya melihat jam, sudah hampir jam 6 sore dan di luar jendela kantor saya hujan turun sangat lebat, well\u2026 saya harus menutup pembicaraan : <em>\u201cGreeeat, Thank you for the discussion, <span> <\/span>selamat menyetir ke ***** ya, perjalanan masih jauh lho. Salam untuk keluarga. <span> <\/span>Have Fun ya, because Life supposed to be beautiful.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><em><span>Once again, thank you my friend, God bless you.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hari ini adalah hari yang special, ada banyak kejadian yang menggelitik rasaku dan membuatku tersenyum. Thank you Creator of All that is, you give me a valuable lessons today. Hari ini, semua hasil sesuai dengan apa yang saya afirmasikan pagi ini lewat status YM : \u201cSemua hal akan berjalan mudah, membawa kebaikan dan membuat kita &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/?p=198\" class=\"more-link\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;It\u2019s okay to be different&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[34,35,37,36],"class_list":["post-198","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spiritual","tag-its-okay-to-be-different","tag-judgements","tag-life-supposed-to-be-beautiful","tag-life-supposed-to-be-fun"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=198"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":200,"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions\/200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.fibriandani.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}